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By nadjib dali ahmed

The Arrows of Growth: Moving Towards Your Healthier Self

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Upgrade your personality! Explore the Enneagram's Arrows - your roadmap to growth and self-discovery.


The Enneagram offers a roadmap for personal growth, and a key element of this roadmap is understanding the Arrows of Growth. These arrows, depicted on the Enneagram diagram as lines connecting each type to two other types, represent the natural direction of growth for each personality type.

This blog post will delve into the concept of the Arrows of Growth, how they guide you towards a healthier and more integrated self, and how to utilize them for personal development.

Moving Beyond the Core Type:

The nine core types of the Enneagram provide a valuable foundation for understanding your personality. However, the Enneagram doesn't stop there. The Arrows of Growth illustrate the direction each type tends to move when under healthy conditions, striving towards greater self-awareness, resilience, and well-being.

Two Arrows for Each Type:

Each type on the Enneagram has two arrows – a growth arrow and a stress arrow.

  • Growth Arrow: This arrow points towards a healthier and more integrated version of your core type. It represents the direction you naturally gravitate towards when feeling secure and fulfilled.
  • Stress Arrow: This arrow points in the opposite direction and signifies where you might move when feeling stressed, overwhelmed, or unhealthy.

Understanding the Growth Process:

Movement along the Arrows of Growth is not always linear. You might experience periods where you move in the direction of your stress arrow, but the Enneagram encourages you to consciously choose the path of growth.

Let's explore some examples:

  • Type Seven (The Enthusiast): Their growth arrow points towards Type One (The Reformer). When healthy, Sevens learn from Ones to develop discipline and focus, channeling their boundless energy into meaningful pursuits. Their stress arrow points towards Type Five (The Investigator), leading to withdrawal and isolation when overwhelmed.

  • Type Four (The Individualist): Their growth arrow points towards Type Two (The Helper), encouraging them to move beyond self-absorption and connect with others in a healthy and authentic way. Their stress arrow points towards Type Eight (The Challenger), leading to anger and defensiveness when feeling insecure.

Utilizing the Arrows of Growth for Personal Development:

Understanding your Arrows of Growth is a powerful tool for self-improvement. Here are some ways to utilize them:

  • Identify Your Growth Direction: Knowing your core type and its corresponding growth arrow allows you to identify areas for personal development.
  • Embrace the Strengths of Your Growth Point: Explore the positive qualities associated with your growth type and integrate them into your life.
  • Recognize Signs of Stress: Being aware of your stress arrow helps you identify unhealthy patterns and course-correct when you find yourself moving in that direction.
  • Seek Support: Consider therapy, coaching, or joining an Enneagram community to gain support and guidance on your growth journey.

The Enneagram is not a static personality test. It's a dynamic tool that empowers you to move towards a healthier and more integrated version of yourself. By understanding and utilizing the Arrows of Growth, you can navigate your personal growth journey with greater clarity and purpose. 

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